Going through divorce will always serve as an emotional rollercoaster for anyone going through it, no matter how well-prepared they seem at first.
Negative emotions are just part of the experience. Rather than trying to shove them away, it is more important for a person to learn how to cope with what they feel.
Talk to people
WebMD discusses some of the many ways to start recovering after a divorce. One of the first suggestions? Talk it out.
Having a strong social network and solid relationships with your friends and family make it easier to get through any traumatic situation. You can lean on people you trust, vent to them as needed and come to them for guidance and advice.
Engage in self-care
Needless to say, this is a stressful period of time. It is more important than ever to take care of yourself. Self-care in this sense means eating well, exercising when possible, drinking enough water and getting enough sleep.
Indulging in certain hobbies for rest and relaxation may also help. However, it is important to avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms such as drinking or smoking, which can worsen things like depression or anxiety.
Finally, interacting with your partner will likely have to happen at several points of the divorce. It is important to keep up your boundaries. Try texting if meeting face-to-face is too much. Know when to disengage from a conversation if an argument appears to brew.
By keeping these things in mind, it is possible to reduce some of the negativity and stress that goes hand-in-hand with divorce.